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Situationship: Don’t be strung along; Here is how to break free in 4 ways

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No one wants to find themselves in a situationship. But it happens anyway. So what then do you do in that kind of situation (pun unintended)?

The first thing you need to know is that: situationships happen because one partner is—or both partners are—avoidant.

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An avoidant partner wants to feel close but not too close to their partner. They are more likely to quickly feel smothered in a relationship and push their significant other away whenever they need space. While this can create instability and reduce emotional intimacy, the irony is that avoidants attract anxious partners who tend to not know when to draw boundaries and protect themselves from the inconsistencies.

Anxious partners, until they heal and become securely attached, are stuck in the anxious-avoidant trap. They fear abandonment and will stay in an emotionally unhealthy dynamic even if they want to leave while avoidants will push partners away even if they want to experience genuinely close intimacy. And that is how most situationships are born.

For avoidants or anyone who has an insecure attachment style, it can be easy to get stuck in a loop even if you are longing to break free and finally experience an emotionally stable and healthy relationship.

The following ways can help you put things into perspective to come out of the rut.

Be candidly honest with yourself

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Brutal honesty is what will cut it—not walking on eggshells or refusing to address the elephant in the room. Evaluate your (in)actions and how you have conducted yourself so far. Be as sincere as you can get. Allow yourself to be comfortable with the harsh truth staring at you.

Identify your weaknesses

It is by being honest with yourself that you will be able to identify parts of you that resonate with the unhealthy dynamic at play. If you have an unwholesome fear of abandonment that makes you insecure about relationships, note it down as well.

The reason this is necessary is so that you can address unhealed aspects of yourself. Many people settle for situationships because they have either gone through a traumatic event from a previous relationship or the primary environment in which they were nurtured or brought up had inconsistent display of affection from caregivers. In that case, they are used to the unstable push-pull dynamic.

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Speak up

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Now this is where it can get a bit difficult. You’ll need to be brave enough to face the person and admit that what you have going on is unwholesome for you. They may become defensive and you need to also prepare for that.

Or they may gaslight you into thinking that it’s alright and they have feelings for you but just want to take things a bit more slowly. Understand that the conversation is not reach a middle ground per se—especially if the person is not ready to either stop stringing you along or become official. The conversation is for you: to eventually get yourself to a better place where you don’t feel less valued because someone won’t make you their official partner.

Seek help

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No, don’t talk to a family member or a friend. Get a professional to hear you out and explain what makes you naturally predisposed to insecure attachment styles. Therapy is a good place to offload the trauma and learn healthier ways to attract and maintain romantic relationships where you feel valued and seen.

Understand that you are the one in control of your life. Settling for a situationship if that is not what you want implies you are conceding authority over your own life. There’s always someone out there who will appreciate you and give you the stable dynamic you deserve.
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MOVE AFRIKA TOURING CIRCUIT COMES TO NIGERIA FEBRUARY 2025

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Lagos, December 17, 2024 // Today Global Citizen, the international advocacy organization on a mission to end extreme poverty, announced EGOT-winning, critically acclaimed, multiplatinum artist and producer, John Legend, will headline the next installment of Move Afrika, the first-of-its-kind music touring circuit headlined by international artists. Next year’s tour will expand from East to West Africa, with Nigeria joining Rwanda as host countries. The tour will begin with Move Afrika: Kigali at the BK Arena on February 21, before continuing with Move Afrika: Lagos at The Palms on February 25, 2025. Move Afrika is a long-term, large-scale effort to pioneer the music touring circuit across Africa, driving economic investment, job creation and supporting entrepreneurship opportunities in each host country.

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Move Afrika is Global Citizen’s initiative to address the world’s inequities by creating job and entrepreneurship opportunities for the continent’s emerging generations through an annual series of live music events. Showcasing the best of Africa to the world, these events will drive transformative investments within local communities, engage local artists, vendors, agencies and crews, and provide opportunities for on-the-job skill development and training. Producing a world-class experience for fans and artists alike, Move Afrika will set a new gold-standard for entertainment touring events, increasing demand from international and regional artists to tour in the region and building local capacity within host cities across the continent. Each year, additional countries will be added to the Move Afrika tour circuit, which will further expand across the continent over the next five years.

The 2025 edition of Move Afrika will drive a citizen-led advocacy campaign championing sustainable development and economic growth, with a dedicated focus on strengthening health systems across Africa. Together with campaign partners, Global Citizen will urge African nations to increase domestic health financing, prioritize primary care and sexual and reproductive health and rights, boost global investments in health resilience, and alleviate financial burdens on nations to strengthen public health.

A limited number of tickets for Move Afrika: Kigali and Move Afrika: Lagos are available for purchase at moveafrika.org. Additional details about the February Move Afrika tour, including how to earn free tickets by taking action with Global Citizen, will be announced in the coming weeks.

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Partners of Move Afrika include pgLang and the Rwanda Development Board.

“I’m honored and excited to perform in Kigali and Lagos as part of the Move Afrika tour – an initiative that not only brings unforgettable shows, but also creates entrepreneurship and job opportunities, empowering young people to engage with Africa’s growing music and creative industries,” said John Legend. “Africa has always been a global cultural powerhouse, and it’s an honor to be part of the future of live music on the continent.”

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“We’re thrilled to have John Legend, our longtime Global Citizen Ambassador and friend, headline Move Afrika, as we expand the tour from Rwanda to Nigeria,” said Hugh Evans, Co-Founder & CEO, Global Citizen. “As Move Afrika grows year over year, our goal is to equip and inspire Africa’s dynamic, young population to participate in the live music and creative industries, while investing in its future with lasting infrastructure that will mean the continent no longer needs to be excluded from the international touring circuit.”

“Global Citizen and Move Afrika’s return to Rwanda in February 2025 underscores our shared commitment to showcasing Africa’s creative talent and leveraging the global entertainment industry to address the continent’s development priorities,” said Francis Gatare, Chief Executive Officer, Rwanda Development Board. “Together, we aim to position Rwanda as an entertainment hub that benefits all African countries, including by creating youth-focused employment and income-generating opportunities.”

The first Move Afrika event, Move Afrika: Rwanda, held in Kigali in December 2023, was headlined by Grammy Award, Pulitzer Prize winning artist Kendrick Lamar, and prioritized job creation, skill training and youth entrepreneurship along the way. The event employed more than 1000 Rwandans, and engaged 75 percent local crew and production staff. Hailed by many as the most successful live music event ever staged in Rwanda, the show also featured performances by Zuchu, Bruce Melodie, DJ TOXXYK, Sherrie Silver, Ariel Wayz, Kivumbi King and Bruce The 1st.

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The 2025 edition of Move Afrika will build on Global Citizen’s previous campaigns and events across Africa, including Move Afrika: Rwanda, held at the BK Arena in 2023; Global Citizen Festival: Mandela 100, which featured Beyoncé, Jay-Z, Ed Sheeran, Usher, Eddie Vedder, and Chris Martin of Coldplay in Johannesburg, South Africa, in 2018; Global Citizen Live: Lagos, with performances by Davido, Femi Kuti, and Tiwa Savage at Fela Kuti’s New Afrika Shrine in 2021; and Global Citizen Festival: Accra, which brought Usher, SZA, Stormzy, and TEMS to the Black Star Square in 2022.

For more information visit moveafrika.org.

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5 Unique experiences you’ll only find at the Lagos Boat Regatta 2024

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What a century 2024 has been! Phew! You deserve enjoyment, a special kind of treat that allows you dance your cares away, while hyped on adrenaline as you cheer on beautifully decorated boats parading on the scenic Five Cowries Creek, surrounded by expressions of culture that you can’t find anywhere else, all the while immersed in the aroma and taste of delicious food – you can only experience this at the Lagos Boat Regatta 2024.

Therefore, ladies and gentlemen, mark your calendars! On Saturday, December 21, 2024, Lagos will come alive with the sounds, sights, and rhythms of the Lagos Boat Regatta 2024. As Africa’s largest aquatic festival, this extraordinary event promises a vibrant celebration of culture, tradition, and entertainment that you simply cannot afford to miss.

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Here are five unique experiences you will only find at the Lagos Boat Regatta 2024, a must-attend event for everyone, from culture enthusiasts to adventure seekers and families looking for an unforgettable outing.

1. Thrilling Traditional Rowing Races

The heart-pounding rowing races at the Lagos Boat Regatta are the epitome of teamwork, strength, and skill. Teams from Lagos’ indigenous IBILE communities—Ikorodu, Badagry, Ikeja, Lagos Island, and Epe—will battle it out in a series of 10-man, 8-man, 4-man and 20-man races that will keep you on the edge of your seat.

Each team’s synchronized rowing and expertly crafted boats reflect centuries-old traditions passed down through generations. Witnessing these races is not just exciting but also a window into the maritime culture of Lagos.

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2. Mesmerizing Boat Parades

The Lagos Boat Regatta is famous for its stunning boat parades. First the IBILE parades, a spectacular display of more than 200 hand-decorated motor boats, celebrating the five indigenous divisions of Lagos with unmatched cultural flair. Next, the private boat parades as private motor boat owners and jet ski riders show off their themed creations against the picturesque Lagos waterfront. 

Each vessel is a masterpiece, adorned with vibrant colours, traditional patterns, and cultural motifs that tell stories of Lagos’ rich history and heritage. Watch out for your faves – Ikeja boats in white, Badagry in yellow, Ikorodu in green, Lagos Island in red and Epe in blue.

3. Electrifying Live Performances by Top Stars

Music lovers, rejoice! The Lagos Boat Regatta 2024 will feature performances by some of Nigeria’s biggest music stars, including 9ice, Teni, Nini and Joeboy. These artists will bring their electrifying sounds to the regatta, creating an atmosphere that perfectly complements the day’s festivities.

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4. A Feast of Culture and Tradition

Immerse yourself in the cultural richness of Lagos at the Lagos Boat Regatta with a deep dive into traditional rites, ceremonies, and performances by the IBILE divisions. These showcases will give attendees the chance to connect with the spiritual and historical roots of Lagos’ waterways and gain a deeper appreciation for the city’s maritime heritage.

5. A Spiritual Experience

The Lagos Boat Regatta celebrates the waters, not just as a commercial resource but as a sacred entity. This is why the celebration focuses on engaging the local fishing communities and spotlighting their cultural contributions as fishing is a time-honoured tradition that serves as a source of commerce and an ode to deities associated with water, such as Olokun, the Yoruba goddess of the sea.

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The Lagos Boat Regatta serves as a platform to honour these traditions, with ceremonies and rituals that pay homage to the waterways. From libations poured into the creek to traditional drumming and chants, these rites are a powerful reminder of the deep respect the IBILE divisions hold for their natural environment.

Plan Your Visit

To make the most of the Lagos Boat Regatta 2024, here’s what you need to do:

Visit the Official Website: Reserve your spot at one of the official viewing centers along the scenic Five Cowries Creek by registering here: www.lagos-regatta.com. Viewing centres include scenic beaches, choicest restaurants, hotels, beaches, and the thriving hospitality sector around Lagos’ waters. 

Arrive Early: The event starts by 10 am so ensure you have plenty of time to explore and secure a great vantage point.

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Dress Comfortably: Wear light clothing (that expresses culture) and bring essentials like sunscreen and a camera.

Don’t Miss Out!

The Lagos Boat Regatta 2024 is more than just a festival; it’s a celebration of the spirit of Lagos. Whether you’re there to cheer on the rowing teams, admire the boat parades, or dance to live music, there’s something magical waiting for you.

Gather your friends and family, and prepare for an unforgettable day of excitement, culture, and entertainment. Saturday, December 21, 2024, is a date you don’t want to forget.

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We often think of oxygen as the one thing no living creature can survive without. After all, humans and most animals need to breathe to stay alive. 

But did you know that some animals have evolved to survive in places where oxygen is almost nonexistent?

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These animals can be found in some of the harshest environments on Earth, like the deep sea, muddy swamps, or even inside other animals’ bodies. 

Their unique adaptations make them some of the most extraordinary beings on our planet.

1. Henneguya salminicola

Henneguya salminicola is a tiny parasite that lives inside salmon. What’s fascinating is that it doesn’t have mitochondria—the part of a cell that uses oxygen to create energy. Instead, it absorbs nutrients directly from its host fish, allowing it to survive without breathing. This discovery amazed scientists and proved that not all animals rely on oxygen to live.

2. Tardigrades

Also known as water bears, tardigrades are microscopic creatures famous for surviving in extreme conditions. While they normally use oxygen, they can survive without it by going into a state called cryptobiosis. In this state, tardigrades curl up into a tiny ball, losing almost all their water content, and essentially “pause” their life processes until conditions improve. This ability helps them survive in space, underwater, or anywhere oxygen levels drop.

3. Loricifera

Loricifera are tiny creatures that live in the deep, dark oceans where there’s no oxygen. These animals have found a way to survive by using hydrogen, instead of oxygen, to produce energy. They thrive in the mud of oxygen-free seabeds, proving that life can adapt to even the most hostile places on Earth.

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4. Spiny-headed worms 

These parasites live inside the intestines of their hosts, like birds, fish, and mammals. Since the intestines are an oxygen-free environment, these worms have evolved to absorb nutrients directly from their hosts’ food. This unique lifestyle means they don’t need oxygen at all, and they can live happily in places where most other animals cannot survive.

5. Hydra

Hydras are tiny freshwater animals related to jellyfish and sea anemones. While they usually use oxygen, they can survive in low-oxygen environments by switching to anaerobic respiration. This allows them to create energy without needing oxygen for short periods. Their simple bodies and unique biology make them incredibly resilient.

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