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How to spot a narcissist on the first date

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Spotting a narcissist early can save you from future heartache and disappointment.
A narcissist can charm their way into your life, but deep down, they care mostly about themselves.
While they may seem perfect at first, it’s essential to know the signs so that you don’t end up feeling undervalued or manipulated.
Narcissists use charm and confidence as their greatest weapons. Their smile might light up the room, and they could make you feel like the most important person in the world. But, beneath the charisma lies a need for control and attention that can leave you feeling drained.
Here’s how to pick up on narcissistic behavior from the get-go, so you can keep yourself safe and happy.
1. They dominate the conversation
A narcissist tends to talk excessively about themselves, their achievements, and their interests, showing little interest in learning about you.
A narcissist talk excessively about themselves [LinkedIn]
If your date rarely asks questions about your life or interrupts you frequently, it may be a red flag.
2. They exhibit superficial charm

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While initial charm can be appealing, be cautious if it feels insincere or over-the-top. Narcissists often use flattery and charisma to win you over quickly.
3. They lack empathy
Pay attention to how your date responds to your feelings or stories. A narcissist may dismiss your emotions or fail to show genuine concern, indicating a lack of empathy.
4. They have a sense of entitlement
Narcissists believe they deserve special treatment. If your date expects preferential treatment or becomes upset when things don’t go their way, it could be a warning sign.
5. They violate personal boundaries
Observe if your date respects your personal space and boundaries. Narcissists may push limits early on, disregarding your comfort and preferences.
6. They seek constant validation
A narcissist craves admiration and may fish for compliments or boast about their accomplishments to receive praise. This need for validation can be a key indicator.
7. They display arrogant behaviour
Watch for signs of arrogance, such as belittling the waiter, bragging excessively, or acting superior. This behaviour reflects an inflated sense of self-importance.
Watch for signs of arrogance, such as belittling the waiter [Stern]
8. They have few long-term relationships
If your date mentions having few close friends or strained family relationships, it might indicate difficulty maintaining long-term connections, a common trait among narcissists.
9. They react poorly to criticism
Narcissists react poorly to criticism [Glam]
Narcissists often struggle with accepting criticism. If your date becomes defensive or angry when faced with constructive feedback, it could be a sign.
10. They exhibit manipulative behavior
Be cautious if your date tries to control the conversation, steer plans to their liking, or use guilt to influence your decisions. Manipulation is a common tactic used by narcissists.
If something feels off during the date, trust your gut feelings to avoid potential emotional harm.
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This content was created with the help of an AI model and verified by the writer.
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World War 3: Does a global crisis affect you?

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June 23, 2025By
JulieWhen you hear “World War 3” trending on social media, it can feel distant – something out of a history book or an action movie, not real life.
After all, you’re just trying to pay rent, survive Lagos traffic, or get through your 9–5. But the truth is, with all the recent happenings worldwide, it seems like a global crisis is closer than we think.
And of course, a global crisis – whether military, economic, or political – will affect us, no matter how far away they seem.
So, the big question: Does World War 3 (or any global crisis) really affect you? You already know the answer to that. But let’s break it down.
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Your Wallet Feels It First
Ever noticed how everything suddenly becomes more expensive every time there’s global unrest? That’s not a coincidence – it’s cause and effect. Wars and global conflicts shake up oil prices, disrupt supply chains, and mess with international markets.
So yes, if bread suddenly costs more or fuel hikes up overnight, that tension brewing on the other side of the world is knocking at your door, and you know that it’ll affect your finances more than anything.
Job Security Feels Like a Hoax
You’ve probably seen how many minor local crises have shaken your local economy before. Now, imagine how devastating a global crisis will be, especially if your company imports goods, relies on international clients, or is part of a worldwide industry like tech, tourism, or trade. A war, irrespective of how far away it seems, can lead to downsizing, delays, or shutdowns.
A global crisis has a domino effect, and jobs, especially in developing nations, are often the first pieces to fall.

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Humanitarian Crises Become Everyone’s Problem
Wars create refugees. Refugees need food, housing, and protection. Whether through migration policies, international aid, or peacekeeping missions, countries near and far are impacted. And the cost? It’s often shared through taxes, diplomacy, or economic adjustments.
When millions flee their homes, the world doesn’t stay the same. Neither do the borders, budgets, or belief systems.
Your Mental Health Might Take a Hit
Constant exposure to traumatic global events can cause anxiety, emotional fatigue, or even helplessness, especially in a hyperconnected world. Doomscrolling headlines, watching live footage, or arguing in comment sections can chip away at your sense of peace. Not to talk or the constant fear of losing your job or a loved one living in the affected part.
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Protect your peace. Disconnect when necessary. Awareness should not equal anxiety.
Conclusion
The idea of World War 3 might seem like a scary movie trailer playing in the background of your life, but ignoring it won’t make it go away. Understanding how global events affect you is the first step to being part of a smarter, more resilient generation.
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Street Eats vs. Restaurant Dining: Where to grab the best 1k jollof

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June 22, 2025By
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In Nigeria, food isn’t just survival – it’s a daily adventure, a social glue, and an art form. And when it comes to the holy grail of Nigerian meals (jollof rice), everyone has an opinion.
But here’s the honest debate: with just ₦1,000 in your pocket, where’s the best place to satisfy your jollof cravings? Is it the gritty, smoky goodness from the street vendor under the umbrella or the polished plate at a mid-range restaurant?
Let’s break it down in this delicious Street Eats vs. Restaurant Dining battle.
The Street Food Magic
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If we’re being honest, there’s something raw and honest about street jollof. And for most people, this feeling drags them to the street.
The smoky, wood-fired aroma.
That slightly burnt bottom-layer “party rice” taste.
The spicy stew-soaked meat or egg that completes the vibe.
Irrespective of how you choose to serve this version of jollof, there’s always something authentic about it.
Not to mention the fact that ₦1k can get you:
A generous plate of rice
A chunk of beef or pomo
Maybe a sachet of water to cool down after you’ve pushed down a full plate of tasty jollof rice.
The local food stall beside your office or the roadside stall in your street may not be porshed. They may not have an AC or even a good fan, but the fact that they’ve mastered serving you good flavour for this little stand out.
Restaurant Dining
Let’s be real: 1K at a restaurant is an entry-level budget. You might end up with a tasting portion of jollof, not a full meal. But well, it’s definitely not as bad as it sounds. After all, you often get:

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A well-plated dish
Clean environment
Calm music and maybe free Wi-Fi
The jollof might be less spicy, more refined, sometimes missing that homey “local” kick. But this is your lane if you’re looking for a more relaxed, sit-down experience with service and ambiance.
However, ₦1K might only afford you a small takeaway pack, or you’ll have to top up to feel truly full.
Where Does the Jollof Hit Harder?
If we’re being honest, with 1K, street food wins on value, quantity, and raw flavour. The smoky taste, the street-side banter, the satisfaction of eating with your hand under a tree – nothing beats it.
But if you’re dressed for a meeting or need a more serene experience, a restaurant might offer more comfort, even if it means sacrificing a few scoops of rice.
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Ultimately, it boils down to what you’re genuinely looking for. You should hit the streets if you want flavour, spice, and satisfaction.
However, if ambience, hygiene, and calm are qualities you value, a restaurant does it. However, you may need to come with a little extra cash.
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Music Mash-ups: Best Nigerian DJs turning up Afro-parties this year

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June 22, 2025By
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From rooftop raves in Lagos to beachside events in Accra, one thing is constant: Nigerian DJs are the heartbeat of Afro-parties worldwide.
In 2025, they’re not just spinning tracks—creating cultural moments, blending amapiano with Afrobeat, and throwing in surprise samples that keep everyone on their feet.
Whether you’re a nightlife regular or a playlist junkie, here are the top Nigerian DJs turning every Afro-party into a movie this year.
1. DJ Spinall
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DJ Spinall has been in the game, but 2025 proves he’s still at the top. Known for fusing Afrobeat with electronic dance music and high-energy mash-ups, Spinall’s sets are a masterclass in vibe control. From Coachella to Lagos Block Party, when Spinall shows up, the dance floor obeys.
Where to catch him: International festivals, major Lagos events, and exclusive rooftop gigs.
2. DJ Neptune
With the release of Greatness 3.0, DJ Neptune is pushing boundaries again. His parties feature slick transitions and genre-hopping madness, blending old-school Naija hits with fresh amapiano drops that leave zero room for boredom.
His unique style lights up every party, leaving attendants wanting more. Of course, he’s also showing up in the international scene and won’t slow down anytime soon.
3. DJ Consequence
It’s not a party in Lagos if Consequence isn’t on the lineup. His mash-ups feel like a curated journey through Nigeria’s sound evolution. He’s always serving everything hot to spice any party – from Ajegunle bangers to the latest Afrobeats chart-toppers.

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Where he shines: Clubs, weddings, and elite Afro-raves
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4. DJ YK Mule
You’ve definitely moved your body to a DJ YK beat, even if you didn’t know it. His viral beat instrumentals and chaotic-yet-funky mixes have become the soundtrack to Nigerian street culture. And in 2025, he’s bringing the same madness to live events. He’s put energy, and whenever he steps on the deck, you know there’s fire on the dance floor.
5. Oba_DDJ
Although relatively new on the block, Oba_DDJ is already redefining what it means to be a vibe curator. Known for his effortless blends of afro-house, hip-hop, and alté, his sets feel like a spiritual journey, with bass. In a space dominated by OGs and old timers, he brings precision, calm confidence, and clean transitions that keep the crowd on lock. Catch up with some of his viral mixes on TikTok and other social platforms.
6. DJ TGarbs
Representing the growing wave of female DJs, DJ TGarbs has been lighting up Abuja, Lagos, and even London Afro brunches with her smooth mash-ups of R&B and Afrobeat. She’s fresh, fearless, and fiery behind the decks. She may still be one collab away from global domination, but we’re sure hearing about her, and she’s not slowing down.
7. DJ Crowd Kontroller
If your DJ can’t control a crowd, what’s the point? Crowd Kontroller isn’t just mixing songs – he’s commanding the tempo of your soul. His live mixes, hype vocals, and fearless genre switches make him a favourite at parties with real music heads. Add that to the fact that his live recordings are always viral, and you can tell he’s the man for the moment.
In 2025, Nigerian DJs are no longer local kings – they’re global culture shapers, bringing the Afro-party spirit to every dance floor from Toronto to Tokyo. So pay attention to the DJ next time you’re at a party, wedding, or just vibing on a Friday night. Behind every unforgettable moment is a Nigerian DJ blending sounds with soul.
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