We live in an age where hustle culture is glamourised, and you know what that means—our phones almost never sleep. Notifications beep, and there are unanswered messages here and there.

But with all these hustles and bustles comes the need for peace. Choosing peace can almost feel rebellious. But for a growing number of people, especially young Africans, “soft life” isn’t laziness or luxury. It’s intentional living. It’s healing. And most of all, it’s necessary.

So, how do you chase your dreams and protect your peace in a world that never shuts up? Let’s take you on a tour of the world of soft life.

What Exactly Is Soft Life?

Let’s be clear – soft life isn’t just about taking solo trips to Zanzibar (though, that sounds amazing too). It’s about:

• Emotional peace over people-pleasing.

• Balance over burnout.

• Boundaries over busyness.

A soft life is freedom from glorifying struggle. It’s about choosing joy and rest without guilt. But with this definition comes the begging question—how can you live a soft life and prioritize peace without quitting your job or going on the Zanzibar trip?

How to Live the Soft Life 

1. Romanticise the mundane

You don’t need a private jet to enjoy life. Light candles during dinner. Dress up just because. Celebrate small wins like they’re Nobel Prizes, and you’ll see how much you begin to enjoy life.

2. Filter your noise

Mute group chats. Curate your social feed. Not everyone should have access to your mind space, and you shouldn’t have access to everybody’s. So find what suits your goals and follow them.

3. Rest with intention

Sleep isn’t laziness. Breaks are part of progress. Protect your weekends like you protect your data, and find the slightest opportunities to rest. There’s nothing wrong with taking time off from work.

4. Learn the power of “No.”

You don’t need a reason to decline. “No” is a full sentence – and a soft life anthem. If they’re telling you to do something you’re not comfortable with or something that takes you out of your comfort zone without benefits, learn to say no.

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Soft Life ≠ Soft Mind

Let’s not confuse softness with weakness. The people pursuing peace are often the strongest, because they’ve had to fight the loudest noise: expectations, culture, guilt, and trauma.

Choosing peace in a world that profits from your anxiety is revolutionary.

Let’s be honest – some days hit harder than others. Whether it’s heartbreak, burnout, anxiety, or just the Mondayest Monday, it can feel like you’re walking around with the heaviest of hearts. But here’s the beautiful thing: music heals, especially worship music.

Not the kind that guilt-trips you into sainthood, but the kind that wraps around your soul like a warm blanket and whispers, “You’ll get through this.”

So here it is—my go-to worship playlist for those heavy days when peace feels far away and you just need a lifeline.

 1. “Oceans (Where Feet May Fail)” – Hillsong UNITED

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Let’s start with the classics. Something about that slow build, the ocean metaphor, and “Spirit lead me…” just hits differently when you feel lost. But this one reminds you that when you feel like you’re drowning, you can float again.

2. “Jireh” – Maverick City Music & Elevation Worship (ft. Chandler Moore & Naomi Raine)

This one is a declaration. That chorus – “Jireh, You are enough” – is therapy with chords. It’s an assurance of healing, even when things seem toughest. It reminds you that you don’t have to hustle for love or worth.

3. “Excess Love” – Mercy Chinwo

This one carries both vibes and power. It’s worship with a Nigerian flavour that reminds you of divine affection even in your mess.

4. “Promises” – Maverick City Music (ft. Joe L. Barnes & Naomi Raine)

When life doesn’t make sense, this song is a gentle reminder: God doesn’t ghost. Even when people do. It’s the perfect therapy for when you’re questioning everything but need one thing to hold on to.

5. “Yahweh” – Dunsin Oyekan

This song is simple, powerful, and soaked in presence. Chant-like and meditative, it’s perfect for quiet mornings or nights when sleep won’t come. It reminds you that you can rest in something bigger than yourself.

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6. “You Know My Name” – Tasha Cobbs Leonard (ft. Jimi Cravity)

This one is personal. Like someone opened your diary and turned your insecurities into lyrics. It’s an intimate worship that uplifts you when you’re feeling invisible or forgotten.

7. “Imela” – Nathaniel Bassey ft. Enitan Adaba

It doesn’t rush you. It’s slow, reverent, and full of gratitude. The kind of song you listen to with your eyes closed, hands lifted, and a quiet “thank you” in your heart.

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 8. “Not for a Moment” – Meredith Andrews

Soft, strong, and full of truth, this song is a gentle reminder that God exists and that he’s ever present for us. It tells you that even when it feels like God is silent, He hasn’t left.

Worship music isn’t about pretending everything is okay—it’s about being real and showing up anyway. These songs remind me that vulnerability is spiritual, that God can handle my silence, my questions, and my exhaustion and still love me through it.

If you’re new to Nigeria – or Nigerian Twitter, TikTok, or WhatsApp – you may find yourself constantly asking, “Wait, what does that mean?”

Nigerian slangs are more than just catchy phrases; they are a cultural expression, an emotional barometer, and an instant community badge.

From street corners in Lagos to hostel rooms in UNILAG, our slangs have lives of their own.

Let’s take a walk through some of the most iconic Nigerian slangs that deserve a space in the Oxford Dictionary – or maybe their own Naija Lexicon.

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1. Wahala

Definition: Problem, trouble, stress.

In context:

– “No wahala” = No problem.

– “This your phone get wahala.” = Your phone is acting up.

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Why it deserves its own entry: It is versatile, poetic, and universally Nigerian. From lighthearted banter to serious drama, “wahala” fits every mood.

2. Shege

Definition: Intense suffering, often as a result of life or Nigerian government policies.

In context: “2023 showed me real shege.”

Bonus: “Shege pro max” = Maximum level of suffering.

Why it deserves a dictionary spot: It’s the pain, the struggle, and the spiritual sequel to “wahala.”

3. E choke

Definition: Something unbelievable, overwhelming, or astonishing, positive or negative.

Origin: Popularised by Davido.

In context: “That Benz you bought? E choke!”

Why it deserves a dictionary entry: It captures pure emotion in two words. No translation needed.

4. Omo

Definition: Literally “child,” but used to express surprise, frustration, or awe.

In context: “Omo, this life no balance.”

Why it belongs in a dictionary: “Omo” is punctuation, mood, and cultural commentary all rolled into one.

5. Sapa

Definition: Extreme financial hardship.

In context: “Sapa hold me, I no fit buy shawarma.”

Why it should be canonised: Because every Nigerian student or salary earner has encountered Sapa at least once.

6. Japa

Definition: To flee, escape, or relocate (especially abroad).

In context: “My guy don japa go Canada.”

Why it deserves its own entry: It’s the anthem of Gen Z Nigerians and the prayer point of many.

7. Yarn

Definition: To speak, gist, chat.

In context: “Abeg yarn me wetin happen for that party.”

Why it matters: It’s a slangy way of saying “communicate,” but cooler.

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8. See finish

Definition: When familiarity breeds disrespect.

In context: “She no dey greet me again, na see finish.”

Why it’s iconic: It names a phenomenon most cultures know but can’t quite describe.

9. Gbese

Definition: Debt or financial entanglement.

In context: “Omo that guy dey inside gbese after Detty December.”

Why it slaps: It sounds like trouble – and it is.

10. No dey carry me play

Definition: Don’t joke with me

In context: “I senior you oh, no dey carry me play.”

Why it deserves a spot: It’s a whole attitude in a sentence.