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ASK PULSE: I divorced my wife and she left the children with me – Is this right?

I divorced my wife and she left our three children with me, is that how they used to do this divorce thing?
Dear Pulse,
My marriage has packed up. It was good for as long as it was, nothing special. I was married to my wife for 7 years and we have 3 children. Somewhere in the 5th year, I lost attraction for my wife because you know how childbirth changes a woman.
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I started to cheat and she caught me several times. Anyway, we started to quarrel a lot and there were one or two violent fights before we got to the inevitable end. I initiated the divorce and maybe I expected her to fight for the marriage like women do but she didn’t. Instead, this woman packed her things and left the children with me!
Which woman does that please? Shebi they said women have an everlasting connection with their children, maternal instincts or something. I don’t think my wife has it. How can you leave all 3 children under 7 with a man? She has been gone for 2 weeks, she doesn’t care how we are coping, feeding etc.
She only calls every evening to check on the children and she will be laughing one annoying laugh. I had to beg my mother to come and help me but she is old, and there is little she can do. I wake up at 5 am for school runs and by the time I get to the office, I am so tired. I sleep for like an hour to get myself.
This woman is wicked! In a divorce, is the woman not supposed to take the children so the man will be like a bachelor, that’s what happened to my friend now, why is my own different?
— Frank.
Dear Frank,

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It sounds like you’re going through a tough and unexpected situation, and, it is understandable that you feel overwhelmed right now. Divorce is never easy, especially when children are involved, and it’s clear that you didn’t anticipate this outcome.
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But let’s take a step back for a moment.
In most divorces, yes, children often stay with their mothers. However, every situation is different. Your wife may have felt exhausted—physically, emotionally, and mentally—after everything that happened in the marriage. Perhaps, after years of dealing with infidelity, conflict, and even violence, she saw leaving the children with you as the best or only option. It’s possible that she needed time and space to rebuild herself.
It’s also worth asking yourself this: before the marriage ended, who handled most of the childcare? If your wife had been the primary caregiver for seven years, she might have been dealing with burnout. Now that the roles are reversed, you’re experiencing firsthand what it takes to raise children full-time. It’s difficult, right?
Your frustration is valid, but blaming your wife may not be the best way forward. Instead, you need to focus on what happens next. Have an honest conversation with your wife. Try to understand why she made this decision instead of seeing her as wicked. Ask her what she needs and whether there’s a way to co-parent effectively.
You already have your mother assisting, but consider reaching out to other family members, hiring help, or arranging childcare if possible. You also need to adjust your perspective. Instead of seeing this as unfair, try to see it as an opportunity to bond deeply with your children. They need love, stability, and care from both parents, regardless of who they live with.
The end of a marriage is painful for everyone involved. Take some time to reflect, acknowledge your role in what happened, and work toward being the best father you can be.
— Pulse.
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Bisquit & Dubouché brings bold French elegance ~ to Lagos with an exclusive media launch

On Wednesday, April 30th, 2025 Lagos’ luxury and lifestyle elite gathered in style for the much-anticipated Nigerian launch of Bisquit & Dubouché, the storied French cognac house known for its bold expression and rich heritage. Held at the CentrePoint Place in Ikoyi, the exclusive event was a masterclass in Luxury, refinement, and cultural fusion.
Bisquit & Dubouché, founded in 1819 in Cognac, France, has long stood out for its daring spirit and meticulous craftsmanship. With its signature long distillation process that amplifies aroma and depth, the brand represents more than just fine cognac – it’s a statement of character and charisma.
The Lagos launch delivered a multisensory experience that was equal parts education and celebration. Guests were treated to immersive brand storytelling, bespoke cognac tastings, and a curated ambiance that seamlessly wove together French elegance and Lagos sophistication.
The guest list was a testament to the brand’s appeal among Nigeria’s most discerning tastemakers. In attendance were Lagos’ most prominent socialites and industry leaders, including Nightlife impresario; Pretty Mike, Dr. Samuel Abiola Jacobs, Managing Director of The Luxury Network Nigeria; Jubril Arogundade, popularly known as Jubril of Lagos; Managing Director of GAC Motors; and Lily Afegbai, celebrated Nigerian Actress and Entrepreneur, amongst many other high-profile guests who define Lagos’ cosmopolitan Turo247newz.com.
We chose Lagos for a reason, says Emmanuel Ogu, spokesperson for Enstore, the Nigerian market partner for Bisquit & Dubouché. This city moves with the same fearless spirit that inspired our founders. It’s bold. It’s dynamic. It’s a place where legacy meets the future – and that’s exactly what our cognac represents.
The spotlight was on the Bisquit & Dubouché V.S.O.P. and X.O expressions, both heralded for their complexity and sophistication. The V.S.O.P. captivated with its ripe fruit notes and subtle spice, while the X.O. delivered a deep, velvety experience with aromas of tobacco, cocoa, and candied fruits.
Bisquit & Dubouché V.S.O.P. (Very Superior Old Pale) is a refined cognac crafted from four crus – Grande Champagne, Petite Champagne, Fins Bois, and Bons Bois – and aged for a minimum of four years in French oak. It features rich aromas of dried apricot, honey, floral rose, and warm spices like cinnamon and clove. Smooth and mellow on the palate, it finishes with notes of honeysuckle, citrus, and mango. Best enjoyed neat, on the rocks, or with ginger ale.
Notable Awards and Recognitions:
Awards include Gold at the IWSC (2009, 2012, 2018) and International Spirits Awards (2012, 2013).
Bisquit & Dubouché X.O. ( Extra Old) is a luxurious cognac aged for at least 10 years, made from premium Grande and Petite Champagne eaux-de-vie. It offers smoky notes of tobacco and cocoa, balanced with candied fruit and prune. Full-bodied and velvety, its taste unfolds with plum, mocha, cedar, and liquorice. Best enjoyed neat.

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Notable Awards and Recognitions:
Awards include IWSC Gold (2010, 2015), Silver Outstanding (2016), and Gold at the 2013 International Spirits Awards.
As Lagos welcomed this heritage brand, the evening served as a toast not only to fine cognac but to the daring, forward-thinking individuals who shape the cultural landscape of Africa’s most vibrant city.
Visit the Bisquit & Dubouché Website or Social Media Pages for more details.
IG: @bisquitduboucheofficial
Not for persons under 18. Remember to always Enjoy Responsibly.
For media inquiries, please contact:Mr. Eghosa Oyeguneghosa.oyegun@roberttaylormedia.com+234 818 207 5911
About Bisquit & Dubouché
Founded in 1819 by Alexandre Bisquit, Bisquit & Dubouché is a premium French cognac house known for its unique distillation method that enhances aroma and smoothness. The brand offers classic expressions V.S., V.S.O.P., and X.O. and is celebrated for its bold, floral and fruity flavor profile. Its craftsmanship emphasizes intuition and timing to achieve a refined, aromatic character. In 2017, Bisquit & Dubouché became part of the Campari Group portfolio.
About Campari Group
Campari Group is a global leader in premium spirits, managing over 50 top-tier brands including Aperol, Campari, SKYY, and Grand Marnier. Established in 1860 and headquartered in Milan, it operates in over 190 countries with 18 production sites and 20 direct distribution networks. The group focuses on strong brand building and strategic acquisitions and is publicly listed on the Italian Stock Exchange.
For more information: www.camparigroup.com/en
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8 Most popular female-only gyms in Lagos

These 8 gyms combine state-of-the-art equipment, women-only group classes, personalized coaching and wellness services to create empowering spaces for strength training, cardio, yoga and more.
Many offer flexible membership plans, on-site nutrition counseling and even childcare while you work out.
Whether you live on the mainland or the island, you’ll find a welcoming community and expert guidance to help you reach your goals.
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1. Browntap Fitness Women Only, Ikeja and Lekki
Boasting two flagship locations, Browntap Fitness Women Only features cardio zones with treadmills and rowers, a free-weights area designed for female ergonomics and studio spaces for barre, Zumba and HIIT.
Certified women’s health coaches offer small-group strength programs focusing on posture and injury prevention. Members receive monthly body-composition assessments and access to an on-site smoothie bar.
2. LadyFit Nigeria, Victoria Island
LadyFit’s chic 2,500-square-foot studio combines strength machines calibrated for women with private training suites for boxing and functional fitness.
The gym runs all-female bootcamp series and dance-fitness classes, and it hosts quarterly health seminars on topics from hormonal balance to stress management. Secure lockers and towel service add to the premium experience.
3. Iris Fitness Women Only, Yaba
Iris Fitness brings a boutique feel to the mainland with group cycling, barre fusion and power yoga in air-conditioned studios.

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Trainers lead personalized strength-and-conditioning sessions that integrate Kettlebells, resistance bands and TRX suspension. Nutritionists are on-call for meal-planning consultations, and the lounge area includes free Wi-Fi and charging stations.
4. TrainHer Fitness, Lekki Phase 1
TrainHer focuses on performance training for women, offering Olympic-style lifting platforms, plyometric zones and sand-pit sprint tracks.
Members can join small cohorts for marathon prep or muscle-building cycles under the guidance of female strength coaches. Post-workout recovery services include infrared sauna sessions and guided foam-rolling classes.
5. Buffz Fit Ladies Gym, Surulere
A neighborhood favorite, Buffz Fit combines cardiovascular equipment with an all-women CrossFit corner featuring competition-grade rigs and gymnastics stations.
Daily classes include kickboxing, plyo-dance and sculpt circuits. Childcare is available on weekdays, and the in-house café serves protein-packed smoothies and energy bowls.
6. FitChick Studio, Ikoyi
FitChick Studio offers an intimate environment with a maximum of 10 participants per class. Signature programs include Pilates reformer, ballet-inspired core work and Vinyasa yoga.
Personal trainers develop 12-week transformation plans, complete with progress tracking via a branded mobile app. Monthly socials and wellness workshops foster community support.
7. Body Mind Women, Ikeja GRA
Body Mind Women emphasizes holistic wellness with combined offerings of strength training, guided meditation classes and therapeutic massage.
The gym’s women-only weight area includes female-friendly barbell and dumbbell sets, while the mind-body studio hosts mindfulness and breath-work sessions. Members enjoy priority booking for the in-house spa.
8. B-Fit Ladies Hub, Lekki and Surulere
B-Fit Ladies Hub operates two bright, modern facilities that feature functional-training rigs, dedicated spin studios and core-strength pods.
Weekly themed challenges, such as “Glow-Up Week” or “Strength Sisterhood”, keep members motivated. An integrated app allows members to reserve spots, track workouts and join monthly nutrition webinars.
Each of these female-only gyms offers a unique blend of equipment, coaching and community designed to help Lagos women pursue their fitness goals confidently.
By training in an environment tailored to their needs, members gain both physical results and the encouragement of a supportive network.
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5 Nigerian Presidents Since 1999: Who has performed better?

Since the dawn of Nigeria’s Fourth Republic in 1999, the seat of power in Aso Rock has passed from one hand to another like a sacred staff in a village of restless chiefs — each leader bearing promises as heavy as iron and dreams as bright as flame.
From military shadows to democratic dawns, the nation’s soul has danced to the rhythms of reform, ruin, and revival.
Some presidents soared on the wings of hope; others crawled through the mud of missed chances.
But in this long political pilgrimage, one question lingers like the last ember in a dying fire: Who among them truly lit the path forward, and who merely chased shadows?
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1. Olusegun Obasanjo (1999–2007)
Tenure: 8 years (2 terms) Party: People’s Democratic Party (PDP)
Obasanjo took office in 1999 after nearly 16 years of military rule. His administration was largely focused on economic reforms and restoring Nigeria’s global image. He spearheaded the debt relief program that saw Nigeria cancel over $18 billion in external debt through negotiations with the Paris Club.
Major achievements of Obasanjo’s presidency were containing the domestic turmoil permeating Nigeria by keeping control of the military. He helped to form the African Union, and he liquidated the country’s external debt. In December 1999, his approval rating was at 84%; by 2001, it was at 72%; and by September 2003, it had fallen to 39%.
Other Key Achievements:
Launch of the National Economic Empowerment and Development Strategy (NEEDS)
Privatisation of key state-owned enterprises
GSM revolution that improved telecommunications access
Establishment of the EFCC and ICPC to fight corruption
While Obasanjo laid down some economic foundations, most Nigerians still grappled with poor infrastructure, power outages, and rising poverty.

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However, during his tenure, the hope of democracy and reform was high. Although he was repeatedly accused of corruption throughout his career, he has always maintained that his dealings were honest.
2. Umaru Musa Yar’Adua (2007–2010)
Tenure: 3 years (died in office) Party: PDP
Yar’Adua is remembered for his humility and his Seven-Point Agenda, which focused on infrastructure, power and energy, food, security, wealth creation, transport, land reforms, and education. The administration did not realise this agenda due to his illness and death.
Though his tenure was cut short, he is credited with being transparent and declaring his assets publicly. He publicly revealed that he had ₦856,452,892 in assets, ₦19 million of which belonged to his wife, and ₦88,793,269.77 in liabilities.
Under Yar’Adua, Nigeria’s oil-rich Niger Delta became increasingly militarised and insecure. Scores of civilians were murdered by armed gangs and security forces in 2007.
Also, in 2009, Boko Haram launched an attack on a police station in Bauchi State, and clashes between the militants and the Nigerian Police Force erupted in Kano, Yobe and Borno.
Key Achievements:
Amnesty Programme for Niger Delta militants, reducing oil-related violence
Initiated power sector reforms
Restored the rule of law as a core principle of governance
Yar’Adua’s leadership was seen as calm and visionary. However, his health problems hindered the full implementation of reforms. Nonetheless, his commitment to due process gained public respect.
3. Goodluck Jonathan (2010–2015)
Tenure: 5 years (Vice President 2007–2010, President 2010–2015) Party: PDP
Jonathan assumed office after Yar’Adua’s death and won a full term in 2011. His era witnessed mixed reviews. He was praised for electoral reforms but heavily criticised for handling of corruption and insecurity, particularly the rise of Boko Haram.
Under Jonathan’s administration, Nigeria became the largest economy in Africa by overtaking South Africa and Egypt. The Jonathan administration oversaw the construction of new railways in the country. It also managed the construction and beautification of several federal roads including the construction of the second Niger Bridge.
Jonathan’s government has largely been described as corrupt. According to The Economist, corruption flourished under the Jonathan administration, “who let politicians and their cronies fill their pockets with impunity.”
Other Key Achievements:
Electoral reforms that improved the credibility of elections (2011 seen as relatively free and fair)
Establishment of Almajiri schools in Northern Nigeria
Advocacy for women in politics (35% Affirmative Action)
Growth of the Nollywood and tech sectors under his administration
Nigeria’s economy became Africa’s largest under Jonathan, but corruption scandals like the fuel subsidy scam dented public trust. Boko Haram’s abduction of the Chibok girls also marked a turning point in his public image.
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4. Muhammadu Buhari (2015–2023)
Tenure: 8 years (2 terms) Party: All Progressives Congress (APC)
Buhari’s return to power as a former military ruler was met with optimism, especially due to his anti-corruption stance. However, his administration is often criticised for economic stagnation, worsening insecurity, and an over-centralised leadership style.
Buhari was also elected because he pledged to enhance security in Nigeria. After this announcement, Buhari’s approval ratings skyrocketed, largely due to Jonathan’s apparent inability to fight Boko Haram. Under his leadership, the economy averaged a growth rate of 0.9%, and unemployment was at an all-time high.
His tenure was marked by several medical leaves and he was slow to solve problems he mentioned during his campaign. In the first year of the administration, Naira depreciated in the black market and by 2016, the country’s economy had declined by 1.6% and in that same year, the government announced a rise in the official pump price of petroleum.
Key Achievements:
Social Investment Programmes like N-Power and TraderMoni
Infrastructure investments (railways, roads, airports)
Development of the Anchor Borrowers Programme to support agriculture
Partial removal of fuel subsidy (2022)
Despite early enthusiasm, Nigerians endured two recessions, rising inflation, and fuel scarcity. Kidnappings and banditry escalated and many felt Buhari’s fight against corruption was selective and ineffective.
5. Bola Ahmed Tinubu (2023–Present)
Tenure: In office since May 2023 Party: APC
Tinubu’s presidency is still in its early stages, but it began with swift economic reforms, including the removal of fuel subsidy and the unification of exchange rates. These bold moves have earned praise from financial analysts but also caused significant hardship for ordinary Nigerians.
Who Has Performed Better?
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