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5 unhealthy excuses keeping you stuck in the wrong relationship

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5 unhealthy excuses keeping you stuck in the wrong relationship

5 unhealthy excuses keeping – Being alone is better…

Being alone is better than being with the wrong person.

Leaving a toxic relationship can be one of the hardest decisions to make, especially if you’ve been with that person for a long time.

You keep recounting the good times, the happy memories, and all the best moments you’ve shared together. But when you weigh the good times against the bad, you realise that the bad moments outweigh the good.

Your heart aches when you remember the times when this person treated you indifferently, when you poured so much love into the relationship and barely got half in return. You might shed a tear or two as you wonder why you never had the courage to leave.

Why didn’t you leave sooner? What were you so afraid of? One might ask, and you’ll tell them, “No, I did try to leave.” But the person you love more than anything only seems to take you seriously when you threaten a breakup.

They beg you to stay, promising change, and with sweet words, they pull you back in. But does anything really change when you get back together? No. They pretend to change for a few weeks, but soon, they return to their worst behaviour, taking you for granted, refusing to communicate, and treating you poorly.

And so, the circle continues: getting hurt, trying to leave, being begged to come back, and believing in false promises. It becomes an endless loop. How do you break free? How do you look the person you love in the eye and say, “No, I can’t do this anymore”?

One day, when you’ve had enough, you decide within yourself, “Yes, I still love this person, but I love me more.” You realise you need to leave this toxic relationship for your peace of mind. You need to choose yourself.


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And this time, even when they come crawling back, showering you with empty promises and love-bombing, you see through the facade and fake words. You see them for who they really are. You look them straight in the eye and say, “I’m done.” You know there’s nothing left to say, no words that haven’t been said before. “Goodbye,” you tell them. This time, they realise that their usual tactics won’t work on you anymore, and they leave you alone.

You hang up the phone and, instead of feeling immediate relief, a deep sadness washes over you. “It’s over,” you whisper to yourself, and then you cry, hard. You cry for the loss, for the love you gave, for the time you wasted. You tell yourself, “I’ll be fine,” and this time, you believe it with every fibre of your being. It’s truly over, and you are free.

Why do people stay in a relationship with the wrong person?

Many people use excuses to stay with someone who isn’t right for them. These excuses are based on fear, hope, or the comfort of what’s familiar. But, being honest with yourself is the first step to breaking free from a relationship that is no longer serving you. When you realise that, you can now build the much-needed courage to leave that toxic relationship.

Let’s look at some common but unhealthy excuses that might be holding you back and why you should reconsider them.

1. “I’ve invested so much time in this relationship”

One of the most common excuses for staying with someone who’s wrong for you is feeling like you’ve spent too much time with them to just walk away. But staying with someone just because of the time you’ve already invested is not a good reason to stay. Time is something you can never get back, but that doesn’t mean you should waste even more of it being unhappy. The longer you stay, the more time you’ll lose. It’s never too late to choose your happiness and start fresh.

Don’t waste more time in a toxic relationship being unhappy [MadameNoire]

2. “I’m afraid of being alone”

Going back to being single can sound distressing, especially if you’ve been in a relationship for a long time. The thought of starting over or facing life without your partner can feel overwhelming. But staying with someone just to avoid being alone isn’t healthy. You deserve a partner who makes you feel loved, not someone who just fills a void. You’ve found love before. You can do it again.

You’ve found love before You can do it again [iStock]

3. “They have so much potential”

It’s easy to fall in love with someone’s potential, imagining who they could be if only they changed. You might believe that if you try harder and are patient enough, they’ll become the person you need them to be. But people don’t always change, and holding onto the hope that they will isn’t fair to you.

Don’t hold onto a false hope that they will change [AdobeStock]

You deserve someone who loves and respects you as you are, not someone you’re constantly trying to “fix.”

4. “Everyone has flaws”

No one is perfect, and every relationship has its ups and downs. But there’s a big difference between normal relationship challenges and serious issues like disrespect, lack of communication, lack of support, or emotional abuse. Dismissing the obvious red flags behaviour because “everyone has flaws” can keep you stuck in a toxic cycle. Yes, people have imperfections, but that doesn’t mean you should accept being treated poorly. You deserve to feel safe, valued, and happy in your relationship.

5. “We’ve built a life together”

Shared memories can make it feel impossible to leave a relationship. But, staying just because it feels convenient or because you don’t want to disrupt your life isn’t the best. A comfortable but unhappy life together isn’t worth sacrificing your emotional and mental health. Sometimes, leaving is the only way to rebuild a better, more peaceful life.

Sometimes, leaving is the only way to rebuild a better, more peaceful life [iStock]

Never think you won’t find love again. You’ve found love before, and you will again. Choose yourself first, and always remember that you are worthy of real, unconditional love.

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World War 3: Does a global crisis affect you?

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When you hear “World War 3” trending on social media, it can feel distant – something out of a history book or an action movie, not real life.

After all, you’re just trying to pay rent, survive Lagos traffic, or get through your 9–5. But the truth is, with all the recent happenings worldwide, it seems like a global crisis is closer than we think.

And of course, a global crisis – whether military, economic, or political – will affect us, no matter how far away they seem.

So, the big question: Does World War 3 (or any global crisis) really affect you? You already know the answer to that. But let’s break it down.

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Your Wallet Feels It First 

Ever noticed how everything suddenly becomes more expensive every time there’s global unrest? That’s not a coincidence – it’s cause and effect. Wars and global conflicts shake up oil prices, disrupt supply chains, and mess with international markets.

So yes, if bread suddenly costs more or fuel hikes up overnight, that tension brewing on the other side of the world is knocking at your door, and you know that it’ll affect your finances more than anything.

Job Security Feels Like a Hoax

You’ve probably seen how many minor local crises have shaken your local economy before. Now, imagine how devastating a global crisis will be, especially if your company imports goods, relies on international clients, or is part of a worldwide industry like tech, tourism, or trade. A war, irrespective of how far away it seems, can lead to downsizing, delays, or shutdowns.

A global crisis has a domino effect, and jobs, especially in developing nations, are often the first pieces to fall.


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Humanitarian Crises Become Everyone’s Problem

Wars create refugees. Refugees need food, housing, and protection. Whether through migration policies, international aid, or peacekeeping missions, countries near and far are impacted. And the cost? It’s often shared through taxes, diplomacy, or economic adjustments.

When millions flee their homes, the world doesn’t stay the same. Neither do the borders, budgets, or belief systems.

Your Mental Health Might Take a Hit 

Constant exposure to traumatic global events can cause anxiety, emotional fatigue, or even helplessness, especially in a hyperconnected world. Doomscrolling headlines, watching live footage, or arguing in comment sections can chip away at your sense of peace. Not to talk or the constant fear of losing your job or a loved one living in the affected part.

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Protect your peace. Disconnect when necessary. Awareness should not equal anxiety.

Conclusion 

The idea of World War 3 might seem like a scary movie trailer playing in the background of your life, but ignoring it won’t make it go away. Understanding how global events affect you is the first step to being part of a smarter, more resilient generation.


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Street Eats vs. Restaurant Dining: Where to grab the best 1k jollof

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In Nigeria, food isn’t just survival – it’s a daily adventure, a social glue, and an art form. And when it comes to the holy grail of Nigerian meals (jollof rice), everyone has an opinion.

But here’s the honest debate: with just ₦1,000 in your pocket, where’s the best place to satisfy your jollof cravings? Is it the gritty, smoky goodness from the street vendor under the umbrella or the polished plate at a mid-range restaurant?

Let’s break it down in this delicious Street Eats vs. Restaurant Dining battle.

The Street Food Magic

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If we’re being honest, there’s something raw and honest about street jollof. And for most people, this feeling drags them to the street.

  • The smoky, wood-fired aroma.

  • That slightly burnt bottom-layer “party rice” taste.

  • The spicy stew-soaked meat or egg that completes the vibe.

Irrespective of how you choose to serve this version of jollof, there’s always something authentic about it.

Not to mention the fact that ₦1k can get you:

  • A generous plate of rice

  • A chunk of beef or pomo

  • Maybe a sachet of water to cool down after you’ve pushed down a full plate of tasty jollof rice.

The local food stall beside your office or the roadside stall in your street may not be porshed. They may not have an AC or even a good fan, but the fact that they’ve mastered serving you good flavour for this little stand out.

Restaurant Dining

Let’s be real: 1K at a restaurant is an entry-level budget. You might end up with a tasting portion of jollof, not a full meal. But well, it’s definitely not as bad as it sounds. After all, you often get:


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  • A well-plated dish

  • Clean environment

  • Calm music and maybe free Wi-Fi

The jollof might be less spicy, more refined, sometimes missing that homey “local” kick. But this is your lane if you’re looking for a more relaxed, sit-down experience with service and ambiance.

However, ₦1K might only afford you a small takeaway pack, or you’ll have to top up to feel truly full.

Where Does the Jollof Hit Harder?

If we’re being honest, with 1K, street food wins on value, quantity, and raw flavour. The smoky taste, the street-side banter, the satisfaction of eating with your hand under a tree – nothing beats it.

But if you’re dressed for a meeting or need a more serene experience, a restaurant might offer more comfort, even if it means sacrificing a few scoops of rice.

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Ultimately, it boils down to what you’re genuinely looking for. You should hit the streets if you want flavour, spice, and satisfaction.

However, if ambience, hygiene, and calm are qualities you value, a restaurant does it. However, you may need to come with a little extra cash.


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Music Mash-ups: Best Nigerian DJs turning up Afro-parties this year

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From rooftop raves in Lagos to beachside events in Accra, one thing is constant: Nigerian DJs are the heartbeat of Afro-parties worldwide.

In 2025, they’re not just spinning tracks—creating cultural moments, blending amapiano with Afrobeat, and throwing in surprise samples that keep everyone on their feet.

Whether you’re a nightlife regular or a playlist junkie, here are the top Nigerian DJs turning every Afro-party into a movie this year.

1. DJ Spinall

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DJ Spinall has been in the game, but 2025 proves he’s still at the top. Known for fusing Afrobeat with electronic dance music and high-energy mash-ups, Spinall’s sets are a masterclass in vibe control. From Coachella to Lagos Block Party, when Spinall shows up, the dance floor obeys.

Where to catch him: International festivals, major Lagos events, and exclusive rooftop gigs.

2. DJ Neptune 

With the release of Greatness 3.0, DJ Neptune is pushing boundaries again. His parties feature slick transitions and genre-hopping madness, blending old-school Naija hits with fresh amapiano drops that leave zero room for boredom.

His unique style lights up every party, leaving attendants wanting more. Of course, he’s also showing up in the international scene and won’t slow down anytime soon.

3. DJ Consequence

It’s not a party in Lagos if Consequence isn’t on the lineup. His mash-ups feel like a curated journey through Nigeria’s sound evolution. He’s always serving everything hot to spice any party – from Ajegunle bangers to the latest Afrobeats chart-toppers.


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Where he shines: Clubs, weddings, and elite Afro-raves

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4. DJ YK Mule  

You’ve definitely moved your body to a DJ YK beat, even if you didn’t know it. His viral beat instrumentals and chaotic-yet-funky mixes have become the soundtrack to Nigerian street culture. And in 2025, he’s bringing the same madness to live events. He’s put energy, and whenever he steps on the deck, you know there’s fire on the dance floor.

5. Oba_DDJ

Although relatively new on the block, Oba_DDJ is already redefining what it means to be a vibe curator. Known for his effortless blends of afro-house, hip-hop, and alté, his sets feel like a spiritual journey, with bass. In a space dominated by OGs and old timers, he brings precision, calm confidence, and clean transitions that keep the crowd on lock. Catch up with some of his viral mixes on TikTok and other social platforms.

6. DJ TGarbs 

Representing the growing wave of female DJs, DJ TGarbs has been lighting up Abuja, Lagos, and even London Afro brunches with her smooth mash-ups of R&B and Afrobeat. She’s fresh, fearless, and fiery behind the decks. She may still be one collab away from global domination, but we’re sure hearing about her, and she’s not slowing down.

7. DJ Crowd Kontroller 

If your DJ can’t control a crowd, what’s the point? Crowd Kontroller isn’t just mixing songs – he’s commanding the tempo of your soul. His live mixes, hype vocals, and fearless genre switches make him a favourite at parties with real music heads. Add that to the fact that his live recordings are always viral, and you can tell he’s the man for the moment.

In 2025, Nigerian DJs are no longer local kings – they’re global culture shapers, bringing the Afro-party spirit to every dance floor from Toronto to Tokyo. So pay attention to the DJ next time you’re at a party, wedding, or just vibing on a Friday night. Behind every unforgettable moment is a Nigerian DJ blending sounds with soul.

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